Birthday weekends are better if you start them off with posh cocktails on The Peninsula hotel’s sun-drenched rooftop. The lift expresses you to Manhattan’s concrete canopy, and within moments you’re surrounded by its forbidden fruit. You’ll find the sunglasses a touch on the large side; it’s getting hard to tell if the object of your wandering eye deserves your attention. The linen draped oh so trendily over a central Moroccan-style tent may flap away in the breeze, but it will be restored in no time – the illusion of easy breezy perfection back in tact.
You may have to battle with the condensation dripping off the dainty base of your champagne flute onto your summer-white dress (mine was black in prep for the promised rain), and you may have to drink up in a hurry if you expect to be on time for that Broadway play. You may even have to squint (wrinkle-encouraging) if you’re still wearing prescription glasses (passe?), but it’ll all be worth it for the scene you may encounter on your express lift trip back down to earth.
We’re waiting for the elevator. It arrives with a ding. Doors part open, revealing an eager (but not too eager) crowd. The leggy blonde standing in front of me – also awaiting the lift – pretends it’s empty and promptly pushes her way to the back of it, turns around, and glares out. The crowd of people she has just barged into start to shuffle out, a little stunned at this less than pleasant introduction to the rooftop, and one girl – a particularly miffed brunette – shakes her head and mutters “braindead” as she passes by.
As we start our descent, it immediately becomes clear that the blonde – long, healthy hair tied up in a medium-high ponytail, thickly mascaraed eyes brimming with suspended tears, and a tasteful – though short – patterned dress with bell sleeves and gold trim – is very upset. She is glaring at a guy – taller than she, great body, running pants and a faded Princeton T, maybe holding a bottle of water – and saying, across the space, “This is the lowest you’ve ever sunk. I can’t believe it. This is the lowest.”
He’s a little embarrassed, but keeps it cool, “I’ll make it up to you, baby,” he offers flippantly with a sly grin, which enervates her even further, and she crosses the lift, so she is directly across from him, and we are no longer in the crossfire. “I’ll come,” he says.
She, angrily – “I don’t even want you to come anymore.”
“I’ll come,” he says again, shrugging his shoulders and reaching out to her at the same time.
She crosses her arms, “No. I don’t want you to come.”
We hit ground, the doors open, and she sashays out, turning her head over her shoulder with the dagger, piercing: “Don’t forget you’re forty-five.”
She walks quickly – rushing the alluring sway granted by her heels – towards the hotel’s revolving door. He catches up to her, reaches out, says, “Come on, babe, wait” and she, “No, I’m going,” is out the door, presumably into a cab. He raises his hands in a half-hearted gesture of what the fuck? but does not continue to follow.
Too busy observing to talk, we make our way to the room-bound elevator lobby (yes, a little ways from the rooftop lift – The Peninsula likes a little distinction between the haves and the want-to-haves). We’re heading to the 20th to pick up a forgotten umbrella, and Princeton-T guy steps in after us, hits 10, and says, in somewhat sheepish acknowledgment “Hey, it’s me again.”
We smile politely. I ask if he went to Princeton (in lieu of asking exactly what level he had sunk to, which of course is the question dancing on the tip of my tongue). He says no. We reach the 10th floor, he gets out, nods goodbye and that’s that.
5-minute incident. A night’s worth of conversation fodder.
Did he sleep with a younger girl? Or did she just catch him flirting with one when he was supposed to be grooming for a big night out? The 45 comment was a big clue, the difference in how they were dressed, the absence of a ring. The fact that he had a room at the hotel – was she staying with him? Was he visiting her?
Fast-forward to Sunday afternoon. I get a text from my friend:
Elevator couple (yes together) just checked out in front of me
She wasn’t saying anything but she was giving off a major bitch vibe…normal mode for her?
Ok, so perhaps we shouldn’t have been so entertained by what – at the end of the day – was just another lovers’ spat, but the drama of it – the opening and closing of small spaces, the urgent need to flee from the rooftop, the raw emotion (only hers) and brazen public-ness (she didn’t care to be discreet) lent itself to dissection. Like seeing a very short snippet of a play, where the game is to figure out what precedes and follows the action.
We saw two plays my birthday weekend – August Osage County and Waiting for Godot – both ultimately about human relationships and the human condition. One could argue that we saw a third (if briefer) – The Elevator Couple. Just because it wasn’t scripted and produced, doesn’t make it any less a commentary on being human, if viewed through the lens in which all the world’s a play, and all the men and women merely players. Art is supposed to be, after all, a mirror on life. And in some ways, the quarrel was extremely scripted – by societal convention, by gender roles, by biological drivers. Who wouldn’t want to spend a summer’s eve analyzing it?